Considering we have no idea how long we will be living up here in Nor Cal it has been a little tricky figuring out how to get back into normal life again. I debated about what to do with Nicholas for preschool, whether or not to enroll him somewhere, and whether we should start getting to know new friends and setting down some roots.
I was feeling a little sorry for myself (ok, maybe a lot), and determined I wasn't going to make any new friends- which is not a usual thing for me to determine. Thankfully, one day at the park I happened to run into a group of moms from one of the neighboring LDS wards. I met some very friendly girls and kids who have been so nice to include us in their activities.
Our favorite little outing was to Fairyland in Oakland. I was wondering if it would dwarf in comparison to our extensive love and experience with Disneyland, but I was wrong. It was so cute and the boys had a great time. I am hoping we can go back again. The concept of the park revolved around Fairy tales, and while the park was a bit "vintage", I found it to be totally charming.

Second decision made was to go ahead and put Nicholas in preschool. I had researched several but was concerned coming in late that we wouldn't be able to get him a spot. Again someone was watching out for us, and my first choice school for him happened to have one more opening and was very accommodating with us coming in last minute. They have been absolutely wonderful and his teachers are the sweetest women I have ever met. He loves it, and has even been lucky to have a boy we met from the park before in his class!

Another blessing has been being able to see my family that I love. In addition to seeing Jared's family, my aunt Emily and her family live just a bit away and we were able to see them and hug those adorable cousins of mine. We left them feeling so much gratitude for their great examples and love for the wonderful people they are.

Lastly, I have been focusing on improving our relationships as a family. My goal has always been to foster nothing but love and friendship between the two boys, and it is not often easy. They are great with each other but we keep working on it. We have started some fun new traditions and activities with them that make our weeks more exciting, like weekly pizza parties, sleepovers, and frozen yogurt dates. Its so funny how the boys have been sharing a room since they can remember but somehow calling it a "sleepover" and putting their beds together brings them so much renewed excitement.
Second decision made was to go ahead and put Nicholas in preschool. I had researched several but was concerned coming in late that we wouldn't be able to get him a spot. Again someone was watching out for us, and my first choice school for him happened to have one more opening and was very accommodating with us coming in last minute. They have been absolutely wonderful and his teachers are the sweetest women I have ever met. He loves it, and has even been lucky to have a boy we met from the park before in his class!
Another blessing has been being able to see my family that I love. In addition to seeing Jared's family, my aunt Emily and her family live just a bit away and we were able to see them and hug those adorable cousins of mine. We left them feeling so much gratitude for their great examples and love for the wonderful people they are.
Lastly, I have been focusing on improving our relationships as a family. My goal has always been to foster nothing but love and friendship between the two boys, and it is not often easy. They are great with each other but we keep working on it. We have started some fun new traditions and activities with them that make our weeks more exciting, like weekly pizza parties, sleepovers, and frozen yogurt dates. Its so funny how the boys have been sharing a room since they can remember but somehow calling it a "sleepover" and putting their beds together brings them so much renewed excitement.
